Don’t want a do-over

This has been probably one of the toughest weeks of my life.

Emotions have run the gamut this week- fear, sorrow, disgust, anger, joy, love, pride, and sadness.

Maybe I’m not used to feeling *this* much all at once, but I feel like a worn out dish rag today.

Fear of the unknown Saturday afternoon, sorrow at finding the father-in-law dead, disgust with the way one of his “friends” was acting, anger that more & more was being piled on me to handle, joy in seeing the stepsons and the grandbaby, love for them all, pride in the way the stepsons have finally grown up and again sadness, today as they left.

I also did the eulogy at my father-in-law’s funeral.  He wasn’t a church-going man and there were no preachers who actually knew him.  I’ve always felt strongly against someone who never even met the deceased preaching the funeral.  My voice was very quivery, my knees were knocking a lot, but I made it through.  It was a very small memorial service, as he wanted to be cremated and with it being midweek, I guess a lot of folks were working.  Not to mention at 80, the peer group has shrunk a bit.

I’ve fallen more in love with the grandbaby.  He is pretty damned grand. 🙂  I got the first smile on film!  I also got spit up on A LOT.  I wanted to make recommendations, but damn if I wanted to come across as the interfering mother-in-law.  I finally DID say something, but as a nurse, not a mama-in-law.  (Dammit, a tummy ache is a tummy ache, not tiredness!!)

I’m still NOT Granny, but instead, Grammie.  That, or Grams, but not GraNNy.  Let’s just say I had a bad experience with some folks called Granny and the sound of the word makes my skin crawl.

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Anyway, everyone has gone home and I’ve about got the house straightened back out.  It’s been a rough week and I definitely don’t want any do-overs of it.

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4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Lnda
    Sep 18, 2014 @ 17:08:10

    I’m glad you made it through. Most of us have had weeks like this, and are so glad when they are done, and then as the days and weeks progress, we tend to remember the special times, and the special people in our lives.
    the first smile, huh! That is something to remember with fondness!

  2. snigsspot
    Sep 18, 2014 @ 19:32:37

    First smile caught in a picture…I think he’s been smiling awhile, just nobody had caught it with the camera. 🙂

  3. Old NFO
    Sep 18, 2014 @ 22:26:08

    Highs and lows… One life ends as another starts, and renews our faith. Hang in there lady!!!

  4. fuzzysdad01
    Sep 20, 2014 @ 15:21:40

    I am sure you will bounce back soon. Grammie, you have a precious grandbaby enjoy.

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